Personality development is the development of organized behavioral patterns and characteristics to create a strong and positive image of self. The term ‘personality’ is itself a complete dictionary of various traits and characteristics. It has several hidden meanings and definitions that form the impression of an individual in the society or any specific group.
The development of personality starts immediately after birth. During the course of life various factors continuously keep influencing the formation and development of specific traits in an individual’s personality. Some of the most common factors are temperament, education, biological system, surrounding, environmental factors, family background, education, and the cultural beliefs. The ongoing interaction of these factors leads to the development of an individual’s personality.
Different individuals have different set of characteristics and temperament because they are all born under different set of environmental, biological, and physical factors. Every one is unique in its own way but the route to achieve a positive and realistic personality can be common. Within each one of us there are immense possibilities to develop our personality with strong character.
If you are one among those who wish to achieve milestones in life with a positive approach then you need to define, analyze, and develop your personality. There are many ways and methods for positive development of your personality.
You should be polite and sweet to all. Sweetness in your heart and in your words goes a long way in creating your image in people’s eyes. You should have a control over your words and language as it will further control your actions as well. Apart from that every word you speak should be from the depth of your word that delivers the complete truth. Don’t deceive anyone with lies, false promises, or any kind of fraud. Society gives respect to such a person as the sweetness in their words and actions as well as their honesty touch people’s heart. People form an impression that a specific person is a good person by heart and won’t ever hurt anyone by rude words or wrong deeds.
Furthermore, optimism is the key ingredient that strongly supports personality development. Life is not at all a bed of roses; it has thorns on its way. During the course of life every one has to pass through troubled times, challenges, and dark nights. On your way, you may stumble, may feel depressed and disheartened, and some times the storm of life may tear you apart but a positive attitude is one thing that will keep you going. So, you should always have a positive approach in life. There are people who are rich in talents, knowledge, and experience but sadly they fail to win success, they fail to win life. It’s not because they don’t work hard but because they have a narrow outlook in life that pushes them backwards.
Apart from these, you should also have a control over your emotions. Showing wrong emotions at the wrong time may hamper your image in the society and people may look down upon you. You should know which emotion to show at what time and furthermore, emotions like anger, jealousy, and hatred should be killed. You should also spare some time for socializing with people to listen to their worries and show concern. There are many helpless and homeless people in this world; they all just need one helping hand to rise up in life. Hold the hand of at least one among them and you’ll rise up in people’s eyes. Always keep in mind that by helping people you are not only making yourself rise in people’s eyes and hearts but also for improving your traits and temperament, creating a powerful personality of yourself that is powerful, impressive, and socially viable.